Single? Tips to enjoy your Valentine's day

  He made you feel so bad and obviously dumped you for Val? She saw a richer guy and escaped? You lost your loved one? (Death) Or for obvious reasons, 14th feb 2014 didn't go well for making you a pair of someone's life? Don't end up feeling lonely and dejected, we are all special even without a pair, maybe the ones you wish for ain't just good enough. There are many other things to do on Valentine's Day if you are single than hangout with a sweetie! Forget the day for what it is, or go ahead and celebrate it in your own way. Remember in the end it's just Valentine and you can still make it yours. 

 THROW A PARTY Or PLAN A NIGHT IN

One of the best ways for singles to celebrate Valentine’s Day is to throw a party for all of your single friends-guys and girls. It’s not about hooking up with someone, just a group of people who choose not to be in a relationship at this point in time enjoying one another’s company. If you don’t have any single friend, not to worry. Have a movie marathon at home with your favorite classic movies or your celeb crushes. Relax in your comfy clothes, munch on your favorite snacks and relish in your single hood.

One of the first things to do on Valentine's Day if you are single other than go to a romantic dinner is to plan a night in. Call all your single friends over, cook up a great dinner and pour some wine - for each other! Valentine's Day is about having a good time with your supporters, and your friends are definitely it. Kick back and watch your favorite movie, chit chat like old times or plan a craft you've all been dying to make. You'll soon forget what day it even was!

  PLAN A NIGHT OUT

If you think going out will be a bit more fun this year, plan a night out - no opposite sex allowed! Meet early for Happy Hour, or get dolled up together to kick the night off. Once you're out and having a good time, you'll see that you aren't the only single one out there. One more rule: No opposite sex talk or complaints, unless it's to plan your chat-up-attach for the cute guy/girl sitting down the way.

HAVE A ROMANTIC DINNER IN

If having a nice, quiet night sounds better to you, plan a romantic dinner in for yourself! Cook up your favorite meal, play your favorite music and have a nice bottle of wine on-hand. Dine with a good book, the latest episode on your Netflix queue or just enjoy each bite. You might feel lonely, but cooking for yourself is therapeutic and important. You don't need a guy/girl to cook for or with - enjoy your mad skills on your own time!

Enjoy your night in by pampering yourself. Use your favorite at-home spa treatment, or make a bunch of juices for the week! Even better, get your nails or hair done/cut, or catch a massage. Taking care of yourself is a good way to take the attention off of the day, and put the attention back on you.

 SPEND THE EVENING OUT OF TOWN

Maybe you still want to do something on your own but aren't quite sure what to do. Head out for your favorite place, and then figure it out from there! Visit specific places, take pictures, catch a good movie. Do something fun! There you probably may not know anybody so you can even go clubbing. Traveling out is fun unless you don't like experiencing new things.

  SPEND TIME WITH A LOVED ONE

Maybe your mother, dad or a grandparent is also alone this Valentine's Day. Plan to spend the night with them! Do something you'll both love to do together, and be one another's Valentine! Get them the gifts and all the treat you should have given to the "supposed" loved one. The day is about all types of love, so just celebrate a different kind this year.

 VOLUNTEER

Volunteer on the actual day, sleep early Thursday night for a Friday morning clean-up, or plan to visit an elderly home, motherless babies home, Hospital, or help the street kids. Whichever volunteer opportunity you can find in your town that appeals to you, set the date! It'll remind you how much you do have to be grateful for and how much you can help others. Helping others is in fact another form of love! Not to mention, you'll have an awesome story - and potential idea - for your next Valentine date.


  FORGET ABOUT IT

If non of these advice sounds good enough to you my dear then just don't bother. After all Valentine is just a day, we can always show love everyday and can meet our future sweetheart any day so there is absolutely no need to kill ourselves over nothing. Ask them, did Romeo and Juliet meet on Vals day? Mtschew! #not interested#
But pray sha because it's always good having som1 to talk to intimately #winks#

Credits:
Nenyechi
Brittney Harb

I love you all, enjoy Val 2014.