I am so filled with excitement for seeing 2017, so much that I can't even sleep, the joy of a new year is overwhelming even as I reflect and think about my yesterdays and tomorrow. Don't you think that the joy of this year requires just good tiding? I mean, if you survived 2016, you have survived it all. I pray that you prosper in all your life endeavours.
Anybody can be your friend as long as there is a mutual understanding between the two of you, but these are the friends you should be ditching except you have an excellent way of managing them. Let's go there friends. #smiles#
1.UNSERIOUS FRIENDS
This is the worst kind of friends, their number one intention is to redirect you from your life direction. Want to talk about all the unseriousness you can be? They are the Masters of misdirection. I kind of wonder how we have gotten into, the regrets and shortfalls, they are the reason. If you see all those ladies that have resolved to prayers everytime, chanting, "Arena! Areke! Areas! read!" This is the kind of friends they had.
Run from them. 2017 is just to good to indulge in this friendship.
2M FRIENDS WITH PRICE TAG
Some friends are merely there because there is something you have materially that is catching everyone's attention, they really want people to see that you flow together. Either you have a rich husband or a wealthy father - that could actually be the reason that they are there. It is really not meat to be so and you can imagine yourself without these qualities and know if truly they will stay with you. Run again and away from these class of friends please.
3 FRIENDS THAT THING IS TOO MUCH TO BE HAPPY IF YOU SPEED ON YOURSELF
I want to use myself as an example in portraying this friendship. Am an indoor kin of person and I hardly party or shop too but once in a month I will gladly go to a call centre and purchase my airtime for subscription during my NYSC days. So I had this Neighbour corps member who complained bitterly about my airtime purchases. She complained about my having a self-contain apartment instead of staying in a face me and I face you compound, after all, it is just for few months and not eternity. Lol. Then some of your friends may wonder why you decide to hinder you that clothe of your choice. Common babe, take a vacation, live in Paradise, but the latest clothes and shoes if you can afford it and invest in whatever you wish to. Life is too short, enjoy it while you can and ditch whoever complains about anything that makes you happy. Remember the cost of maintaining your BP level will be more expensive to your enjoyment. I feel you sis, just enjoy while you can.
Many have passed away, wetin you use your money dey do?
4.FRIENDS THAT BRINGS OUT YOUR ANGER INSTEAD OF JOY
Some friends don't know what moments entails, they can always go off when you want it on, they just don't get it right. You really don't compliment each other and you are now irritated about everything. You obviously don't belong to the same behavioural class, do you even wonder sometimes, how the he'll you met? Rest, ditch that friend.
5. COMPETITIVE FRIENDS
We are meant to compliment each other not the other way round., jealousy breeds hatred and evils, it is not allowed in 2017. They want to have your man, always tells you who else has that car or luck you had. They obviously don't pat you at your back and say welcome. You seem like a hidden threat to them. Ditch that friends, there evil strategy is 100% and they are called the household enemies. Save yourself while you can.
Meanwhile enjoy Udala while you contemplate this topic .
If you think that there are still friends to ditch that we don't know, please contribute by commenting below.
Happy 2017
Nenyechi
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