STEP UP YOUR 2016

when you are replaced in your click with another

Have you ever lost a friend because you were not up to the current standard? Then this post is for you. Read my previous step up standard here . Nobody is suppose to help you in making your life decision if not God and you; and to achieve a lot, you will have to lose a lot too; I learnt that in 2015. Lose your friend, Church, cliques etc, instead be the one that they want to reach to - don't be the one going on errands for your friends, it is so heart breaking.  Every January i just did this type of post for me and you, enjoy.

Here are your reason for not stepping up, a problem revealed is a problem solved.

 PROCASTINATIONS

You have been thinking of marrying or starting a business every new year seem to you like a new month and you keep promising yourself that you will do it very soon; and soon turns to years and your wishful league keeps moving so far you know it is impossible to reach them now. Oya stop promising and start now.

 WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY

Often time thinking about people take us back, a wise man once said, "stop finding people and find dollar, I have never seen a dollar that I hate."

 LIVING PEOPLES DREAMS

Okay! Because your brother bought five cars in 2015 after selling electronic and now you want to start electronics business. Beyonce and Solange, Laura and Linda, Shirley and Kezziah stories everywhere. Live your own dream, what works for Chika may not work for Andrew. Good luck.

 FEAR

You are scared of not getting anything at the end of the day, after many effort and it turns futile? Just try, take the risk; it may work this time around.

 PRIDE AND STANDARD

Many a time, your pride is good - at least you know your to do list, but every thing has it's limits. If you don't compromise your standards at times my dear, you are not going anywhere. Even your role model compromises, you can't tell the deepest truth from the picture. Be wise.

 COMFORT ZONE

To make it in 2016, as hard as naija is, you will have to leave your comfort zone, forget the Television and Parties, step a little harder. You can't get people to sign you to their label by singing at home or job hunting on facebook. You also can't make it by receiving just that salary, I agree you are comfortable, but a little more skills in your archive can fetch you a supplement.

 PRINCIPLE

Am sorry to say this, you are way too old to know that you have to separate the weeds from the grains, all words now should be filtered, all lessons adjusted to favour you, understand the scripture in your own versions and throw the rest away. Watch, "Deliver us from Eva."

 REFLECTIONS

After every year, and every quatre my dear, you just have to reflect on the journey so far. How far have you gone, what did you miss? Some things can't be revoked. The fact say all your runs girls course mates are doing perfectly now doesn't mean your should start runs, you are way too old for that game dear. Reflect and adjust because you have been doing music for almost twenty years now and still doesn't have a hit. Change your career.

 NO STRENGTH/ZEAL

"God must really be sleeping right now to be true, haba! Haven't you tried enough - at least I know people who didn't put an effort but are already in the league." Nenye laughs because you don't know what you are saying, there has always been an effort from someone for something. Our lives ain't the same. Bring back your strength/zeal, just a little effort and you are there. Remember say na when school wan close na im people don dey tire to wait for closing. Oya kiss me.

 REVENGE

You want to pay the world back with your failure? You want to destroy other to be like you? You want to go at any length to destroy even the prosperous ones. Stop holding back, move on. Holding back keeps you back. This is a new year; have a new lease. 

I hope this post was helpful, remember to tell your friends of this post, stay with me for a better 2016 and don't forget to advise too. I cant serve you without feedback.
I love you all. Tada for now.