Monday, February 2, 2015

THE BAD THING ABOUT BEING UNDERSTANDING



Am so sorry it took me so long to write a piece or post; or whatever it is called, am so sorry, but I promise to make it up dear ones #Kisses# 
I absolutely know my post today is for the good hearted. In every sphere of our life, there is always a time for us to be understanding and this is 2015! Yeah! Can I advice you on how to say ya or nah? I have seen the both side of the coin and I believe you will love to hear me out and maybe get a little of my understanding. Maybe there are things we can't help but do, January is past; the remaining months of 2015 may be good enough if we understand this post for a change. Next week is definitely for Make over, stay tuned.

So when next you want to be understanding, kindly read this piece.




1. YOU ARE THE LAST CHOICE

Hope you know that every single stubborn and uncompromising individual will have a view before you, and their views will have to tally first before you are consulted. It may take weeks for just one person to decide, and when the important points are already handled, you will just be informed of the unfolding events. You are just the last choice no matter how worthy your advise may seem. But I choose not to be the last option though.



2. YOU CAN'T DO NOTHING

Sometimes no one will consult you, they just believe you should understand. No matter how painful it is, you just can't do nothing. You will obviously be hearing about events that have occurred or about to, since you are the only one that is believed to understand life and people even when it hurts.



3. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A SAY

You just have to agree when the going gets worse because it is in you to always understand, besides you're known for that, being consulted doesn't change anything because the world knows you should agree even if your heart says no, "come on bro," says you heart, "you know they want yes, just don't say no." And John continues to suffer in silence.


4. CHANCES ARE THAT THERE WILL BE NO NEED FOR A CHANGE IN CHARACTER

You are stock, fixed and labeled a good one for being understanding but remember, your mates will always express themselves to their satisfaction, even when it ends in crisis. Being understanding will not give you just all you need in life, life is filled with ups and downs, will you just be fine with both the good and bad? Don't call me a villain, I absolutely wish you well friends. Don't let people deceive you with the, "You have changed," phrase. After all, change is constant.



5. BEING UNDERSTANDING IS A SIN AGAINST ONESELF

Yes I said it, being understanding is a sin to humanity, we just can't be like the other ones all our life. Let them know we can change it. Our ideology was never meant to be the same. It is a sin to live with another man's idea. So am changing this year for good. Stop saying, "you know how it is for people like us na? You should understand my level." Post modernism changes a stagnant ideology. Eg. When I was younger, I use to see young fresh girls being delivered to old men, drunks, imbeciles as wife. Simply because they made some life mistake of getting unwanted babies, they were labeled inferior and made to suffer by living with people they never love, they were people like us, but without choice. Don't understand staying in a place that you know ain't worth your presence. It is only not understanding that changed this norm. Say to yourself, "myself, I refuse to understand predicament and old rules to succeed for 2015."



6. BEING UNDERSTANDING IS BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED

I can say this over and over, that when you are understanding, it only takes a legend to understand you. The world will toil with your deformity (Understanding). Don't ask me how, just try and see. But you are the only one that will understand people, no one will understand your stance whenever.


7. IT IS YOUR COMMITMENT

After all said and done, being understanding is something we all have to do once in a while, we just don't have a choice. But no matter how understanding one can be, let's have its boundaries, if not before, then now; so we can have a better 2015.

See you next week Sunday, I missed you guys. #Kisses#

1 comment:

  1. Please am trying so hard to retify this comment issue. Thanks for showing concern and letting me know. Love you all.

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