You see, after my last post on finding a rich young guy read here, the guys started disturbing me to reciprocate. After much pestering and futile research, here is your tips dear guys.
You know am always on your side right? I am with you simply because you are a part of me. In as much as I don't want to reveal these secrets, I don't want you to get lost with your quest, but I must confess that it is easy for a girl to find a rich young guy from his circle and settle with him. This post is for average guys that seek love to improve, but she may be rich and you're not and it will just kill the dream, so don't get me wrong. These tips are what you have to know to get that rich girl.
* CHECK HER OUT
The truth is, if she has an average beauty and manageable, go for her but then, if she is too pretty and intelligent, don't dare because not just her father but men them will arrange your direction, she probably will end up in an arranged marriage. Don't lose yourself trying to find her. Unless you have real muscles to fight. To ain favours, choose the average one, fathers tend to love them more than others, and can do anything; including taking care of you to make her happy.
* WEIGH YOURSELF
Do you think you are good enough and can fight this battle? If yes, fine, if not brother rest.
* BACKGROUND CHECK
Girls are as fake as this silicone bra. Dear guys, even if you are dumb or something, you should be a CID once it comes to background check. There are so many fake bitches in the world especially in naija. That polished fine girl you're eyeing may have a farmer as a father who doesn't even know she has dough. If she can't take care of her family, she also can't take care of you. She is probably a runs girl who is interested in love for gains. Be careful not to fall into this trap by following one who lives either with her parents or guardian, that's the best proof ever. Don't let her shakara deceive you. Her background is the only revelation you need.
* LOOK GOOD
Don't you know that with our level of love movies; the Philippines and Mexicans have shown us what you should look like? Fine and lokking good. "Birds of the same feathers flock together," so they say. Who want you having a pot belly and wearing traditional with sneakers. Smell good, no mouth odour, shave clean. Look smart.
* GO TO TUSH ENVIRONMENTS
Spend money on yourself, go to good places how do you expect to see Shola in a public market alone, but if you go to the Malls, she is all alone. Visit Transcorp, take flights and not Keke and don't you ever hope she is at Shoprite or Millenium cos you're dead and gone.
* BE INTELLIGENT
Impress her, impress her father with intelligence maybe with a software skills or something, just do something exceptional; this will sell your market already. Her dad may even advise her on you and pay for the wedding ceremony. Have a sense of humour and Charisma. No humour, no Aura.
* HAVE A VISION
What do you want to achieve with her, you're not going to depend on her financially right? It's not a trade by barter affection for finance abi? Even if she is too blind to see you have no sense of direction, her family will notice.
* DON'T FIND FAULTS
Don't find faults, don't nag if she is wrong, just advise. Remember, women are made to be loved not understood. Remember also that she is your ladder to climb Kilimanjaro, so handle with care.
* PRAY
Pray against detractors and failing of plans, you will make it.
Happy Sunday people.
I think you should consider becoming an Author. Very nice post Nenye
ReplyDeleteThanks dear
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